DEEP DOWN YOU KNOW THERE’S MORE POSSIBLE FOR YOU

You dream of a deeply connected loving relationship, that embraces all of you.

A rich, fulfilling life, lived on your own terms, without sacrificing any part of yourself.


And you’re also not sure you want a divorce

You want clarity and answers

To be able to trust yourself deeply.

A clear vision for a future that lights you up

Confidence to make smart decisions that lead you forward.

Clarity and confidence.

Empowered choice.

A life, love and relationship of your own design.

You are…

Unhappy in your relationship or marriage.

Asking hard, heartbreaking questions that seem to have no right answer.

Exhausted by doing all the work to try and hold the relationship together.

Maybe your partner has told you it’s over between you.

Or you’re already navigating separation, or in the middle of divorce.

You know big changes are coming, and you don't know where to start.

It’s scary, painful & confusing.

It’s heartbreaking (even if you did choose it)

It’s overwhelming & isolating.

And, you don’t have to do all of it alone.

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Choose You

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Choose You •

Smiling woman with curly hair and glasses wearing a beige coat outdoors, Sallyanne Hartnell Divorce Coach and Strategist, owner of reflect coaching

Your Personal Divorce Wing Woman.

I will…

WALK WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY

From the first tentative decisions and conversations.
Through the messy middle of separation, mediation, negotiation, financial settlement, child caring agreements, and divorce.
To the end and a new chapter.

This is your invitation to CHOOSE YOU.

What if, you knew…

All that you’re craving in a loving relationship is possible.

All that you wonder about, on the other side of the big, scary decisions, is waiting for you.

You’re here for a reason.

You intuitively know there is a different reality possible for you.

You deserve to be truly happy and feel deeply connected in your life.
Loved, tended, heard and seen in the way you crave.

You already know that.

Yes, divorce is heartbreaking and hard. It can be messy and scary.

Whether you choose to stay or leave, something has to change.

And I want you to know there’s a beautiful future on the other side, waiting for you to claim it for yourself.

CHOOSE YOU.

With my expert support & nurturing guidance you will…

  • Be eased through the overwhelm and supported through your fears.

  • Explore options and find answers to the endless cycle of questioning.

  • Confidently make empowered, future-focused decisions.
    (I will make sure you don’t make costly mistakes)

  • Create a smart strategy through your divorce, and a clear path to a future of your design.

  • Save time, energy, conflict, heartache and money.

As Your Divorce Coach & Strategist I will:

  • Help you define what you most want for your future

  • Work with you to achieve the best possible outcome

  • Support you to stay sane, happy, and healthy in the hard parts

  • Guide you through the process quickly efficiently & cost-effectively

  • Ensure you are scaffolded by a solid team

  • Empower you to emerge whole, healthy and healed on the other side.

Reflect Coaching Client Stories

  • Client S - Sydney, Australia

    Client S navigated her divorce with a high-conflict ex-partner while supporting her children through multiple court-ordered family reports and managing challenging transitions between parents.

    She refinanced the mortgage to keep the family home and successfully negotiated a financial settlement in mediation. Both her lawyer and the mediator were impressed by her preparation and willingness to negotiate, knowing exactly what was important and where she would compromise. Emotionally regulated and well-supported, she was able to advocate fiercely for herself and her children.

  • Client J - Vermont USA

    Client J with my support, navigated her financial/property settlement and care arrangements for her two teenaged children in Australia, then successfully sold the family home, relocated back to her home country.

    She has a new home, new job and an income producing investment property. Healthy relationships with both children, and has repartnered happily. With a binding financial agreement to protect her and her asset base.

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My Clients Have…

  • Reignited the spark in their marriage and reconnected with their partner

  • Amicably navigated separation, mediating to a win-win resolution

  • Confidently and successfully navigated the family law system, including for some family court

  • Supported their children in confidently transitioning between two homes, co-parenting collaboratively or in high-conflict situations

  • Divorced without tearing each other down

  • Created new family dynamics and built happy, healthy, healed lives

  • Saved money and been supported to make the best financial decisions for themselves throughout the process

BOOK A FREE CONNECTION CALL to EXPLORE OPTIONS

Bespoke, high-touch & confidential support during one of life’s most challenging seasons - separation & divorce.

I work with clients globally, so can support you wherever you are.

I help you unravel your relationship so you feel confident & supported in your decision to stay or leave,
empowered to divorce without drama or burning everything down.

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Wherever you are, access the support you need

How I support my clients globally.

While I am based in Australia, I work online, across countries and time zones.

My proven strategies, processes & frameworks are universally transferable & apply wherever you are in the world.

And I help you build your support network both globally & locally.

If there are no appointments in my calendar that suit your local time zone, I will create one personally for you.

Ways to work together…

Clarity Consult

If you don’t know where to start, start HERE.

For CLARITY on your options, values & vision.
A plan & strategy to navigate the legal system, your next steps saving you time. energy & money.

1 on 1 Coaching

Private, bespoke mentorship with Sallyanne
over 3 or 6 months

Coaching in the Workplace

Support for your key staff through relationship breakdown, separation & divorce

Uncoupling Support

A structured program to support you both to consciously uncouple & divorce with less drama. Book a call to discuss.

Not sure what you need?
Book an introductory call with me to discuss your options.

Unravel: Self-Paced Course

Multi-module, self-paced online course
Privately explore the questions you’re asking about your relationship
Decide whether to stay or leave your marriage

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    “The best decision I ever made! Sallyanne’s coaching provided real, tangible solutions in a thoughtful & supportive way. She made me feel safe.”

    Jessica Pierce - Vermont USA

  • “In a time when I was feeling somewhat lost, exasperated and angry Sallyanne helped cut through the noise with advice and thinking that was well informed , empathetic and very timely. I would highly recommend her for anyone going through a separation or divorce.”

    Jason D - Melbourne, Australia

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Start Here

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Connection Call

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Start Here • Connection Call •

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Don’t know where to start?

Start here with your COMPLIMENTARY CONNECTION CALL

This free 20 min call gives you an understanding about how coaching can support you and a feel for what it’s like to work with me.

A genuine connection call to explore your options, choose which coaching pathway is right for you and for us to decide next steps together.

Frequently Asked Questions

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  • Options to work with me include:

    • A one-off intensive call, focused on one specific issue. 75 mins over Zoom with follow up messaging support

    • Private 1:1 coaching over 3 or 6 months. Fortnighlty coaching calls over Zoom, between session messaging support, curated downloadable resources

    • UNRAVEL - a self-paced multi-module online course designed to support you to decide whether to stay or leave

    • DECIDE & THRIVE - small group coaching experience for women anyone female identifying, with 1:1 access to Sallyanne within a group setting.

    • UNCOUPLING - work with me as a couple, to choose a compassionate, collaborative pathway through your divorce and consciously uncouple

  • Coaching with me is a powerful and transformational experience that requires you to invest - time, energy, commitment and financial.

    If you are navigating divorce, the investment to work with me will absolutely SAVE you in legal fees.

    COST TO WORK WITH ME:

    CLARITY CONSULT - Short intensive program. 2 × 60 min coaching calls, a fortnight apart. Messaging support between sessions and for 1 week after final session. AUD $995

    PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING starts at AUD $995 / month.

    5 sessions / 3 months - AUD $3200
    10 sessions / 6 months - AUD $5500

    Payment plans available

    UNRAVEL - online course AUD $249

    DECIDE & THRIVE - group program TBC

    Bespoke or extended payment plans are available.

    Both Plenti & Just Fund offer a specialised loan service for clients navigating divorce who have limited access to financial resources until after settlement, and they will allow this to be used to cover coaching cosst.

  • I offer discreet invoicing options and a variety of payment methods so your payment remains private.

    The words "divorce" or "relationship" do not appear on any invoices, only the Reflect Coaching generic logo.

    Please discuss your needs regarding invoicing on our connection call. I am more than happy to accommodate to protect your privacy.

  • We work together over 3 or 6 months

    Inclusions:

    • Fortnightly Zoom calls

    • Between-session messaging support - direct access to me between our sessions.

    • Downloadable resources

    • Bespoke curated resources, created just for you

    • Copy editing for written communication - with your ex and your legal advisors

    • Connection with the Reflect Coaching team of trusted service providers

    Coaching with me is an incredibly high-touch and individualised experience. I am with you every step of the way.