Hi, I’m Sallyanne

I wish you didn’t need to be, but knowing what you’re going through, I’m glad you’re here.

I’m a happily divorced single mum to two young adults.

Business owner. Lover of coffee, storms and travel. Singer - mostly in the car or shower.

I’ve stood exactly where you’re standing now. And walked through the complex maze of separation, divorce, and reorganising life and family afterwards.

I know it’s a lonely, painful, isolating, scary and overwhelming place to be.

That’s why I started Reflect Coaching.

So you could have what I most wanted through my own divorce journey.

Expert, support, guidance and care through the messy middle of separation and divorce.

From someone who really gets it.

If you're wondering whether to stay or leave, navigating the complexities of a break-up, separation or divorce, I’m here to walk with you, every step of the way.

I will help you:

  • Feel confident to make smart, empowered, future focused decisions.

  • Ease the overwhelm of navigating everything that divorce demands of you - legally, financially, practically, socially, emotionally.

  • Minimise the impact and fallout. For you. And for your children.

  • Redesign your life afterwards.

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My Story

I’ve stood right where you are now…

In a marriage thinking “this isn’t it”

Feeling heartbroken and afraid.

Not knowing how to voice it, or what to do next.

I divorced an incredibly successful, financially astute husband—and did it incredibly well.

With kindness & compassion for each other.

Reorganised my family.
Reclaimed my life.
Healed my heart.

So, if you’re asking yourself those hard, heartbreaking questions, wondering if you will ever be okay after divorce, the answer is:

Yes, you will be too.

I cut through the noise to:

  • Focus on the future I wanted for myself and for my children

  • Develop deep, unshakeable self-confidence to make empowered decisions

  • Fully trust myself to build the life I wanted after separation

  • Create a long-term plan that richly supported me and my children

  • Communicate clearly and calmly with my ex-husband to establish a foundation for co-parenting effectively and supporting our children together.

  • Minimise the costs of divorce—emotionally, mentally, energetically and financially.

...to reclaim & liberate myself in a new chapter of my life.

Your DIVORCE WING-WOMAN, I will share with you my experience, extensive training, connections & above all deep empathy in our work together.

Divorce coaching with me is safe, confidential, supportive and non-judgemental.

I listen deeply, ask powerful questions, reflect honestly and challenge you to stretch yourself and your vision beyond divorce.

We will clear away barriers that are holding you back from the life & love you most desire, heal your stories and patterns, to redefine your future.

I will be your biggest supporter & fiercest cheerleader as you build your courage, self-belief & self-trust.

I will hold you gently but firmly accountable to what you say you most want for yourself; endlessly support you to do the work and create your own transformation.

So you can honour your desire to build a beautiful, soulful, solo life throughout our coaching experience and beyond.

The life, love & relationship you are craving.

Envision your future

Craft your strategy

Build your team

Take empowered action

Listen to the Podcast 

Reflect Reclaim & Liberate

Reflect Reclaim & Liberate

REFLECT, RECLAIM & LIBERATE

A podcast covering all things relationships, separation and divorce.

Creating healthy, happy, fulfilling relationships without sacrificing any part of yourself.

Supporting anyone feeling challenged in their relationship or marriage.

Confidential conversations for you if you’re navigating separation, divorce or reorganising life afterwards.

Frequently Asked Questions

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  • Options to work with me include:

    • INTENSIVE: A one-off intensive call, focused on one specific issue. 75 mins over Zoom with follow up messaging support

    • PRIVATE 1:1 MENTORING over 3 or 6 months. Fortnightly coaching calls over Zoom, between session messaging support, curated downloadable resources

    • UNRAVEL: a self-paced multi-module online course designed to support you to decide whether to stay or leave

    • DECIDE & THRIVE: small group coaching experience for women anyone female identifying, with 1:1 access to Sallyanne within a group setting.

    • UNCOUPLING - work with me as a couple, to choose a compassionate, collaborative pathway through your divorce and consciously uncouple

  • Coaching with me is a powerful and transformational experience that requires you to invest - time, energy, commitment and financial.

    If you are navigating divorce, the investment to work with me will absolutely SAVE you in legal fees.

    I work online and support client globally.

    Please note: FEES are in Australian Dollars.

    If you prefer to be billed in USD, please ask.

    COST TO WORK WITH ME:

    REFRESH - One-off intensive call AUD$395

    PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING starts at AUD $995 / month.

    UNRAVEL - online course AUD $249

    DECIDE & THRIVE - group program TBC

    Bespoke or extended payment plans are available.

    Both Plenti & Just Fund offer a specialised loan service for clients navigating divorce who have limited access to financial resources until after settlement, and they will allow this to be used to cover coaching costs.

  • I offer discreet invoicing options and a variety of payment methods so your payment remains private.

    The words "divorce" or "relationship" do not appear on any invoices, only the Reflect Coaching generic logo.

    Please discuss your needs regarding invoicing on our connection call. I am more than happy to accommodate to protect your privacy.

  • We work together over 3 or 6 months

    Inclusions:

    • Fortnightly Zoom calls

    • Between-session messaging support - direct access to me between our sessions.

    • Downloadable resources

    • Bespoke curated resources, created just for you

    • Copy editing for written communication - with your ex and your legal advisors

    • Connection with the Reflect Coaching team of trusted service providers

    Coaching with me is an incredibly high-touch and individualised experience. I am with you every step of the way.

Please note: fees are in Australian Dollars.
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